Your Rights in A Relationship
To be able to express your views without the fear of negative repercussions even if they are different than others. You have right to your thoughts.
You can express your differences without fear. You can decide I will not do ______, I will wear______, I will meet ______ because you feel it is right.
You can expect to receive clear answers to the questions that are your legitimate concern.
The right to live free of fear, criticism, accusation, blame , threats, judgment and unsolicited advice.
The right to live free from angry outbursts and rage. You are not responsible for another person’s behavior.
The right to end the relationship without fear.
The right to be free from unsolicited phone calls, stalking and nasty rumors about you. You can seek protection from law.
You are an adult and are able to make your decisions.
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wow wow wow.. this is so beautiful, I wish it was practiced enough. The world would be overnight beautiful. Most of the worlds’ relationship problems with just disappear
Utopia. There is so much fun stepping on each others’ toes who wants to practice is hard task.
DG
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Vinita,
It is the same I use to ask my friends how do people become so different then when I was in similar situation I wondered how indifferent my partner became towards me. But I learned you can only change how you feel not what and how others do. My motto is a pint cannot contain a quart.
When our partner takes us for granted and after a long time we wake up to resist it his/her attempts are to create so much crisis and hardship for us that we will revert to the status quo.So the key is to get through this crisis like a grown up. Our giving into partner’s unjust demands gives him contradictory message. His/her twisting our arm (creating emotional crisis, physical or financial hardship)and our giving in teaches him if I create a crisis she’ll give me what I want. So if you feel strongly about some behavior say it firmly and stick to your guns. If you survive the arm twisting once it will give you a lot of confidence. This should not be one time thing. You have to be consistent in doing so.
Say it a loud “we are grown ups and we should deal with this as grown ups. Stop throwing a tantrum. Talk to me if something is bothering you. My economic dependence on you does not make me a lesser being.”
“I feel_(as if my opinion doesn’t matter/I am no one etc.) when you do XXX. Focus on how you feel. Work on healing yourself. You are the best gift you can give yourself. Before anyone else can love you you have to love and respect your self.
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These tips will really help me survive and keep my head held high , at least for the time being , till then I will learn to accept the truth about the relationships and take them on the same way
tell me , why do we hurt the people we love and then kill the love we once had for each other by suffocating why can’t we accept each otehr as we are , is it really necessary to be perfect ?